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nightfury326

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About nightfury326

  • Birthday January 13

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  • Name
    Heather
  • Orientation
    aromantic
  • Gender
    Agender
  • Pronouns
    They/Them
  • Location
    South Carolina
  • Occupation
    writer, artist,

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  1. Haven't been on in ages. Hi people. 

  2. ^^ This. When someone tells me they broke up because of cheating . Also- aside from really close friends- I don't understand discussing the romantic/sexual aspects of a romantic/sexual relationship. Made even more awkward when someone who's not even close to me (who seems to forget I'm AroAce), is talking about it. I feel like the only way I'll ever understand romantic/sexual relationships is through writing fictional characters- it's the only time I won't freak out over something romantic/sexual.
  3. Well, the most stressful week of the year is overwith for me. Finally in SC away from the rat race of NJ..

    1. paporomantic

      paporomantic

      Congrats!!! :icecream: Is moving to another country the next step?

    2. nightfury326

      nightfury326

      I don't know. 

  4. *sigh* Can this week be overwith already? The stress already got me 3 weeks ago. 

    1. Dodgypotato

      Dodgypotato

      :/ 3 more days 'till Friday.. Got any icecream?

  5. In a week, I will no longer live in NJ...(you oppressively high taxes, high cost of living, very stressed out culture, type of state...especially the part by NYC..South Jersey is nicer anyway)

    1. paporomantic

      paporomantic

      Congrats on moving on! I wonder why so many aces are still staying in NJ.

    2. deltaX

      deltaX

      As someone who is from South Jersey but currently living elsewhere, congratulations! :P

    3. nightfury326

      nightfury326

      South Jersey is so much nicer. I went to college down there a long while back. :) (still has the high taxes tho :/ ) The suburban counties close to NYC are always congested etc and the infrastructure is soo old and can't handle modern traffic well. I LOVED the Pine Barrens :)

  6. I stopped giving a damn what others think, and actually came out as ace on my FB author page.  

    1. omitef

      omitef

      Congratulations.

    2. owl

      owl

      Good job! How'd it go?

    3. paporomantic

      paporomantic

      Well done! :icecream::cake: The utility of stopping giving a damn is one of life's best-kept secrets!

  7. I'm through with real life interactions, people are too unfriendly and give the stupidest remarks, over food no less. Plot Twist- this isn't one of my parents (whom, I'm much more used to.) 

    1. omitef

      omitef

      Are you alright? If you ever want to talk about what happened (or stuff that happens in the future), feel free to message me.

    2. Dodgypotato

      Dodgypotato

      People are stupid. >: (

       

      But you're a cowgirl - and cowgirls have superpowers! :icecream:

  8. I can barely make a post on AVEN without it giving me Internal Server Errors.. :(

  9. The only reason I dislike AVEN is the loading and server problems.

    1. owl

      owl

      There are some things I dislike about it... but that's pretty much the main thing haha. Let's hope we don't ever have that problem!

  10. I didn't like how sexist some of the possible answers were. It's somewhat accurate, My next cosplay project is Hiccup's Race to the Edge outfit. To be honest- I'd say my conflicts have more to do with the sexism in culture and society, rather than anything to do with how comfortable I am in my own body.
  11. And AVEN went down for me....

    1. Dodgypotato

      Dodgypotato

      Oh nooo! It's been pretty shakey lately! Our awesome-ness is just too much for the servers to handle.

    2. nightfury326

      nightfury326

      And it's still shakey today LOL. 

  12. Same. I never experienced it when I hit my teens, and the thought of dating someone still scares me. I knew I didn't like romance, but I didn't know there was a word for it until I got onto tumblr and followed some blogs that re-blogged posts about asexuality and aromanticism.
  13. I agree on this for sure. It was done in a believable way for me, and when I hit the episode Doomsday, I'm crying by the end of it. So, here's my 2 cents. I've experienced romantic/sexual attraction before, to varying degrees. At the time I thought they were crushes, and one was a small amount of romantic attraction, but that faded within weeks. It was 5 years ago so I barely count it toward me being grey-aro. Sexual attraction for me, I feel like it's been even longer. Not that I want to experience it anyway. Fictional romance when done right can be awesome. I've also read and enjoyed smut, fluff, and darker stories. (My fictional writing gets DARK.) Same. If it's a well done romantic comedy. Ok- my example might be really tame, but I'm a David Tennant fan, so I turned on The Decoy Bride on Netflix for the first time and loved it. It's relatively light on the romance, or is it because it's a Scottish film, that it doesn't seem as "in-your-face" as American romantic comedies. Edit- The first time I watched it was in Sept- and for the most part- it's one of my go-to movies for when I have a bad day, unless I'm feeling really romance repulsed, which is rare for me, but it happens.
  14. *When someone comments on a Facebook post and turns it political* *FACEPALM*

    1. omitef

      omitef

      ....guilty....

    2. DeMorgan

      DeMorgan

      Omitef is guilty ... just like Hillary! Damn liberals, ruining our country...

    3. omitef

      omitef

      Oh my god @DeMorgan xDDDDD :icecream:

  15. I think I have a bug, and I've had it for a while (ever since I joined). I can't post status updates of my own from anywhere on my profile, or the main forum homepage. http://imgur.com/a/v3GYW http://imgur.com/4QTVyf9 Basically the whole "What's on your mind?" section for the status updates never appeared to me.
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