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chocolate crosiant

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  1. Hey, I just found this site too and I can relate. I'm asexual and not usually attracted to real people romantically. But when I do get a little crush on someone and I realize that they like me back the feelings immediately disappear and I get freaked out. I don't understand it. It's like I'm allowed to like them but they can't like me back. I just feel really violated and I don't like the idea that they are having romantic/sexual thoughts about me. I lost a friend too. He was very nice and supportive and I kinda liked him but when he revealed that he felt the same I immediately lost the romantic feelings. And I also get that thing about liking the idea of someone who doesn't like you back. It feels safe. I often get romantic feelings for fictional characters for this reason. Weird, I know. Lol. ? But it feels safe to just imagine scenarios in my head, knowing they will never force me into anything because they're not real obviously. You might not relate to the fictional character part but I'm glad I found someone else who gets the rest of it. Have a nice day. ?
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