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BlueHairedHippo

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  • Birthday 01/03/1992

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  • Name
    Angela
  • Orientation
    Aromantic
  • Gender
    Female
  • Pronouns
    She

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  1. When I told my sister in law that I was aro she just said “so now what?” And I replied, “nothing, I just continue my non dating life.” And the whole conversation was over. It was so anticlimactic I didn’t know how to feel about it.
  2. I find really annoying that when I tell people that I’ve never been in a relationship and never will be they look at me with pity and tell me I’ll find someone some day. Even when I try to explain that no I won’t because I don’t like people romantically they don’t listen and say that there is someone for everyone. No one wants to believe me that I’m fine not ever having a romantic relationship.
  3. I usually don’t dress up too much but when I do it’s because I want to look good for myself. On a daily basis I things that are comfortable and a lot of times I wear things that until the hole(s) become too big because I hate buying new clothes. I only wear a little eyeliner but again because I like how it makes my eyes look. In the whole shower department I usually take one only a couple times a week and that is mainly because I get ice cream all over me due to my job. But I only wash my hair every few weeks. And I’ve always found shaving such a nuisance. When I was younger I would wear knee highs so no one would notice when I wouldn’t shave for a few weeks. Now I’ll go months without shaving or waxing (because I still find it super annoying to shave) and wear shorts and not care who sees how hairy my legs are. The only reason I do get it waxed off is because it starts to annoy me.
  4. The major sign that I am aro was that I have never had a crush. So of course I was always the odd person out whenever discussions of who liked who came up. As I got older people would ask me if I would this person or that person and I could only ever respond with “I don’t know.” That was never a good enough reason so I would be pressured to give a better answer but I never could because I had no idea what would make me want to date someone. At one point I told myself that the reason I didn’t date was because no one asked out. But as soon as I found out someone liked me I would instantly want to avoid them. So by the time I made it into high school, still thinking that I needed to have a relationship at some point in my life, started wishing I could just have an arranged marriage.
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