TripleA

What is it called if I feel like I'm lithromantic and quoiromantic? Or maybe I am aromantic, I don't even know anymore.  I know that in theory, romance doesn't appeal to me but the thought of having somebody who cares about me that much appeals to me, if you know what I mean.  By I can't distinguish types of attraction and a lot of the time that feeling goes away after I start a relationship anyway

Today I was called disgusting for not experiencing any romantic attraction to those I'd have sex with by a friend :')