Lovely

I’ve been in 3 relationships, I’m greyaro. My first relationship was a small mixture of romantic attraction but mostly platonic because it was my bestfriend. My second relationship didn’t have any forms of romantic attraction , and if so it was only once. I had strong aesthetic attraction towards them. My last relationship was very strong aesthetic attraction and I’m not sure if it included some romantic attraction because I’ve never really felt it. We did some romantic things sometimes but most times I felt uncomfortable

I’ve heard plenty of times that romance is what you think it is. So if you feel that there is no difference between a platonic relationship and a romantic relationship, then you can say romance means closeness and intimacy. It’s what you personally define it as

When you think aesthetic attraction is having a crush on someone