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QuestionsConfusion&Panic

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    SJ
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  1. I had a really deep discussion with a friend the other day and I think I agree that I was unknowingly in love with my best friend because I sort of denied it and I thought i had never felt love but the more I think about it the more I think I really did love her, my feelings are just without like kissing + desire which would be more ace than aro... like i wanted to be her most important and I would do such extravagant things for her and think about her constantly and she was so grateful for my love but never acted the same way and I understand why now. Plus I desired a physical closeness too,
  2. hmm i do like dressing up occasionally because i like to be like dang i look good and i really like fun bold styles. i always like bolder vs muted and stuff but its never to like attract anyone its just for fun. like makeup too, i don't do it often but when i do i'll go all out and i enjoy doing it. i used to practice weird designs and i've done a couple things for halloween, ( I can make a good cheetah makeup) and yeah fun stuff like that. but then there's days where i won't dress up for a while. i just never wear sweatpants in public or much in general because my parents put it in my head th
  3. yeah : / it can be really confusing like at this point i'm pretty much 99% sure everything ive felt has not been romantic towards everyone because i still don't really understand it but its just so confusing . I'm sorry you lost your friend : ( it really sucks when that happens.
  4. Okay thank you for that input. You might be right about the romantic and platonic feelings because it is different than how I feel or act towards the rest of my friends, so it could be romantic. That's certainly interesting
  5. This is related to a post I just made but I need someone to tell me if this sounds platonic or romantic: I have been friends with this person for a while but only because close with them like 2 years ago. Last year we became very close and I really loved spending time with her so so much. So I looked forward to spending time with her and used to hug her bye during her sport season almost every day before i left school. I went to most of the games for her and a couple other friends, and loved watching her shes SO GOOD at it omg. I write, draw, and make things for her telling her how
  6. I don't think I love her romantically though. Then again maybe I don't actually understand what romantic love is so who knows. Because definitely no sexual love there but romantic and platonic are more similar without including a sexual aspect most people consider with romantic it's so hard to tell the difference. Do you think if I explained our relationship more someone could help me out on if it's romantic or platonic because I thought it was strong platonic love..? If I actually love her romantically that would be hella awkward because of multiple reasons so that idea actually scares me I h
  7. ^ I play clarinet too. I've played for 9 years now and I currently do pep band and pit band hehe.
  8. Because I don't know if it is. I don't mean a squish because we're best friends. I mean that I feel such strong love and emotional attachment to my best friend that there is no other words to describe it than being platonically in love with her. Like I write, draw , and make her things telling her how much I love her. I live for hugs from her stay in her arms for very long durations of time (I'm a very cuddly person in general). I call her the love of my life sometimes and I tell her how amazing she is a lot. I'm always there for her. But none of this is romantic even though I feel like
  9. I'm Catholic and it never really had an affect on anything except maybe that my whole family really sticks to the whole idea of "you'll find someone eventually" and I've while I've thought I'm ace for a long time I've never fully said it to my parents because they'd think it was silly. They just don't get asexual stuff because like I said, I just haven't met the right person. Which is funny to me because I disagree but whatever haha.
  10. I've been trying to learn spanish for a long time and I've also tried to learn a little polish and french but that didn't get very far yet haha. I want to actually learn spanish first and then go back to the others after I feel more confident.
  11. ^Thank you so much I probably am aromantic and I'll try to talk to him about it soon because I feel badly about this since I really don't think I feel the same way he does right now.
  12. Hi, So I'm new here and I've been struggling with my romantic / sexual identities for quite a while at this point. I'm now in college and I've wondered about being asexual since like beginning of high school and was pretty confident it was true. But even as a kid I've never had a crush, and I had to deal with those "who's your crush" conversations where people would think I'm lying when I said no one. Then as I got older it became more prevalent but i always liked romance movies and the idea of romance and I thought that one day I was going to have a romance probably. But I never really g
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