November

Some alloromantic asexuals are extremely arophobic

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Good point! I guess we need a survey where random people are asked instead of only users of one forum .... ... and I just noticed that in this survey (https://asexualcensus.files.wordpress.com/2017/10/2015_ace_census_summary_report.pdf on page 29) the participants were asked to which gender they were romantically attracted: 15.1% of the women, 17.4% of the men and 21.9% of the non-binary people replied that they were attracted to none ...

Hmm... I rather thought of Vimes and Sybil as a QPP. Somehow I thought that Carrot and Angua were both demi, but now that you mentioned it, I can see them in a QPP, too. And yes, Granny is definitely aro! Maybe Nanny Ogg is aro and heterosexual ?

Please tell us! I'm really curious and I have some thoughts too, but I guess I'll have to reread the books again because I'm not sure ... Anyway, I really want Susan to be aro and have a squish on Buddy (when I read Soul Music, I was really annoyed that she seemed to have a crush on him, but I didn't know that squishes exist - so maybe it fits?!)

According to the ace community census (https://asexualcensus.wordpress.com/) there are about 60% women and 13% men ...

@CraSyFantaZi That's great When I came out to my best friend, it was really weird at first, but after some weeks I realized that it made our friendship even better because now we're both comfortable to talk about relationship-related stuff (we kind of avoided this topic before). Nevertheless I think, it's better if a coming out doesn't change a friendship

I answered "born aromantic" because ... that's what it feels like ?‍♀️ (though I think that my attitude towards sex and romance changed from favorable to slightly repulsed since I started identifying as aro ace) I also don't like it when people assume that another person's sexuality or romanticism changed (especially if they blame it on a previous relationship).

My situation is very similar. Since I started identifying as aro ace about half a year ago, only one person cared me about my love life (ok, he just kept assuming that I'd want to have a boyfriend and was worried that we couldn't be friends anymore if I had a boyfriend - so I came out to him because I was really annoyed). It's so much easier when nobody cares

Surrounded by boys who are ugly or idiots or both Actually, until recently I thought that sexuality and romanticism didn't matter unless you are currently in love with someone

I'm a bad aro because I feel like I'm a bad ace because I'm aro Theoretically I know that friendship has to be very important in my life, but somehow I don't really do anything about it, so sooner or later I'll be all alone and I don't even know whether or not that's the right way of living for me