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mika-mok

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  1. @Spirit of God I do want to tell him, becuase he is generally pretty educated and rational on these topics. Im just worried that if he isnt into it we will stop talking all together
  2. I have a pretty strong lush on my friend and am worried that he’ll think it’s weird. Should i tell him? If so, what do I say? also,,, why does my brain decide,, « it doesn’t matter if u have other friends who already cuddle with u u need t h is o n e »
  3. people just not understanding that not all aros are romance repulsed. while some are, a person's attraction has nothing to do with their personal view on romance or relationships.
  4. banned for trying to stop new people from having fun here
  5. 1. "I enjoy fictional romantic relationships and would like to experience the same kinds of feelings" Yes, i enjoy reading romance. 2. "I like nearly everything about romantic relationships but do not experience romantic attraction" I have always been interested in romance and wanted a relationship but beyond a basic objective and rational liking to the person, i don’t feel romantic attraction towards anyone i’ve ever dated. 3. "I would like to be in a romantic relationship, just not with anyone I have ever met" Not sure, i usually evaluate all the potential candidates in my surroundings and based on some criteria (intellect, personality, how well we interact, if they might be interested in me) I choose who to ‘like’. 4. "I love the idea of romance but I can't deal with it in real life" Not sure, I haven’t been in enough romantic situations. 5. "I would like to be in a romantic relationship for practical reasons (not feelings)" I don’t see many practical reasons for a romantic relationship. 6. "I think I would like it if someone had romantic feelings for me" Yes, but only if our friendship isn’t ruined if i don’t date them. 7. "I would be fine in a romantic relationship or a QPR" Ive been reading up on QPRs but a romantic relationship seems more appealing. 8. "I would like to know what it's like to experience romantic attraction" Yes. It would make ‘deciding’ who to like much easier. 9. "I'd rather be romantic than aromantic" see above^^ 10. "I can't imagine spending the rest of my life as an aromantic person" Not sure, never thought about it. 11. "Being in a romantic relationship would help me attain other goals in my life" Not really? idk romance is pretty much in its own category of goals for me, 12. "I think dating sounds like fun" Definetly! I’ve been in a couple relationships myself and it’s been pretty fun.
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