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Is anyone else involved in BDSM type relationships while Aro? How is it working out for you? I'm pretty active in the scene and curious about how other Aro-spec people are experiencing this type of relationship. 

 

For me personally, it goes way beyond the sex, and I truly enjoy the non-romantic type of deep connection that comes with BDSM. To me, it is a really great compromise between an intimate romantic connection, and a purely sexual one - kind of an ideal middle ground, and one that's working out really well for me so far. 

 

Thoughts? Also, I'm open to questions here or over PM, in case anyone doesn't want to ask or discuss openly. (And if this is crossing a line, please let me know!) :)

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I'm a Sir/Daddy/pup sister to a pup/little, a Daddy to a pup/boy, a Trainer to a pony, and a pup/boi to a Sir. On top of that I have other casual play partners and the majority of my social circle are Leatherfolk. I pretty recently wrote about how kink relationships are my ideal, and how my involvement in BDSM helped me come to terms with being aro-spec. 

https://www.pupplay.info/2018/01/03/how-pup-play-helped-me-realize-im-aromantic/

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On 07/01/2018 at 5:09 AM, ladyasym said:

Is anyone else involved in BDSM type relationships while Aro? How is it working out for you? I'm pretty active in the scene and curious about how other Aro-spec people are experiencing this type of relationship.

I've found that my local scene can be very couple centric.
To the point that many events are very much "couplefests".

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16 hours ago, Mark said:

I've found that my local scene can be very couple centric.
To the point that many events are very much "couplefests".

 

That's unfortunate! I haven't had too much trouble finding play partners, but I'm looking forward to going to an event next weekend and hopefully meeting some more people in a casual context. There's always a few couples looking for a third, but so far, the scene here seems pretty inclusive. 

 

On 1/7/2018 at 1:38 PM, Phobe said:

I'm a Sir/Daddy/pup sister to a pup/little, a Daddy to a pup/boy, a Trainer to a pony, and a pup/boi to a Sir. On top of that I have other casual play partners and the majority of my social circle are Leatherfolk. I pretty recently wrote about how kink relationships are my ideal, and how my involvement in BDSM helped me come to terms with being aro-spec. 

https://www.pupplay.info/2018/01/03/how-pup-play-helped-me-realize-im-aromantic/

 

I really enjoyed your article - very interesting, and I definitely appreciate your perspective. Thanks for sharing! 

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