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Jot-Aro Kujo

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About Jot-Aro Kujo

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  • Birthday 01/20/1998

Personal Information

  • Name
    Alex
  • Gender
    Female
  • Pronouns
    She/her
  • Occupation
    Graphic design student
  • Romanticism
    Extremely aromantic
  • Sexuality
    Bisexual

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  1. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Does aromanticism affect appearance?

    I like to dress cute. I like to dress over the top. If men fall in love with me that's their fucking problem, not mine. I am GOING to wear pretty dresses and purple lipstick I'm not going to let amatonormative society stop me.
  2. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Advice?

    I think you should tell her. I don't think you should feel guily- it's not your fault you don't have romantic feelings for her, and you are in no way obligated to- but I believe honesty is important in relationships, especially committed ones. If she is under the impression that you feel one way about her, but you actually don't, I don't think it's very fair to keep that from her. You can still have an equally strong relationship, even a romantic one, but nonetheless I think you should talk to her about how you feel, and see how she feels about it.
  3. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromantics in media

    Jughead. Now we just need like, 100 more Jugheads and we're good
  4. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromantics in media

    No. Unless the word "aromantic" is said, or a character explicitly states that they do not experience romantic attraction, I don't consider that representation at all. I want my existence to be acknowledged. The absence of romance is not the presence of aromanticism, and no way in fucking hell am I ever going to give writers credit for representation they don't actually include. Aro Pidge is certainly a nice headcanon, but it is in no way representation.
  5. Jot-Aro Kujo

    What Is Aromanticism, Really?

    Yes. There are aros who enter romantic relationships for various reasons, and from what you're describing, I would also recommend learning about the term "QPR".
  6. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Movie/TV Series Recommendations?

    Lucky Star is... kinda grossly sexual though. I mean, it is definitely a funny and relatable show with fantastic music, but it's also designed to brainwash you into buying Haruhi DVDs pretty creepy re: teenage girls, in the way that most anime of its genre are. I think that's worth mentioning, at least.
  7. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Hello

    Sure, I'd love to! I don't watch Haikyuu (sports manga bore me except for a certain one I could mention with a certain very voidpunk twist), but I know what it is, at least, and aro fics are always nice.
  8. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Hello

    Woah, you read a fic with an aro main character? What fandom was that? I hardly ever see any that I don't write myself... Also hello!
  9. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Writing Thread

    Unfortunately, yes, yes I am. For the 8th year in a row. Oof...
  10. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromanticism and Religion

    I'm eclectic pagan. I was more or less raised that way, although I was never forced into the religion and my mom wanted to make sure I was exposed to multiple religions in order to make my own choice, so I went to a UU church as a kid. But I wound up feeling most drawn to paganism anyway, lmao.
  11. Oh yeah, all the time. Mostly because I want to be allo (aka accepted) but I don't want to date men, lmao.
  12. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Writing / Fic event?

    Isn't that basically what Aggressively Arospec Week is? 😮
  13. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromanticism effect on social skills

    Yes, it was. And, as I said, social skills and social desires are not the same thing.
  14. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromanticism effect on social skills

    That's a little rude... Social skills ≠ social desires. You can have terrible social skills and not necessarily be antisocial. I mean, I'm absolutely terrible at a lot of video games, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy them, you know?
  15. Jot-Aro Kujo

    Aromanticism effect on social skills

    I'm terrible at socialization, but I think that's not so much because of my aromanticism and more just because of my personality. I'm very shy and tend to not talk to anyone unless they approach me first.
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