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Aava

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About Aava

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  • Name
    Lisa
  • Gender
    female
  • Pronouns
    she/her
  • Location
    Lower Austria :D
  • Romanticism
    WTFromantic? or smth like that
  • Sexuality
    Asexual
  1. #AromanticProblems

    Always worrying that people interpret you being nice as flirting Same thing with cuddling, for me it's just a way of showing platonic affection to my close friends but I often worry that they think I'm romantically interested #aroproblems
  2. I absolutely ADORE your profile picture :D glad someone else appreciates mads mikkelsen as much as I do haha :3

  3. Any ideas or similarities?

    Reading this felt like you were describing me and my feelings haha Sounds more like a plush to me personally, from my understanding people who get crushes are very jealous and heartbroken once their crush gets into a relationship I feel like you can label yourself whatever you want or you don't label yourself at all. I know it'd be nice to have an exact description of what you feel like and where that places you on the spectrum but at the end of the day everyone experiences things in a different way Don't pressure yourself to much, crush or plush doesn't really matter as long as you are happy (Sorry if there are spelling mistakes, I hope you understand what I mean haha )
  4. Celebrity squishes?

    I don't know if it counts but I've seen quite a lot of interviews and livestreams with Matthew Daddario lately and he seems like such a nice and fun person and I'd love to get to know him don't know whether that's anywhere near a squish but I guess it's somewhat similar ^-^
  5. Hey there friends!

    yaaaay another anime fan! Welcome, enjoy your time here :3
  6. #AromanticProblems

    Riiiight and when you say "none" they either tell you to "stop lying" or assume that you like girls
  7. #AromanticProblems

    Friends (in my case often couples) always try to set you up with someone even though you explicitly told them you don't mind being single.
  8. Uh, hi.

    Welcome! enjoy your time here ^-^ (And people who like nerd stuff are always interesting! :D)
  9. Hello there~

    Welcome! Hope you have a lot of fun here Ahh I know how you feel! Happens to me as well, especially when it wasn't supposed to be a romance rp and the other person just kind of turns it into one that always confuses the heck out of me
  10. Awkward Parent Moments

    I hate that sentence. No, we don't know, but I don't understand why people don't accept that this is how we feel at the moment. It just annoys me that they are so certain that they are going to be right Same thing with my mum, I came out to her as asexual recently and she was totally okay with it and seemed to be very understanding, but she told me that she still thinks I "haven't met the right one yet"...another sentence I can't hear anymore :'D
  11. Well Hannibal (by Bryan Fuller) did a pretty good job minimizing romance in my opinion. There are just a few sex scenes really (even a queer one xD) and it focuses on the gory stuff, mental health and the relationship between the main characters No boring falling-in-love-scenes and lovey-dovey stuff~ Other than that I had a really hard time coming up with more shows and movies but I guess another one would be Life of Pi (I personally didn't enjoy that one) and "Spy" with Melissa McCarthy which is an enjoyable comedy movie, even though it started with her having a crush, they didn't focus on that at all later on As for why they always include romance in movies, I agree with the others above What annoys me is that often times it doesn't even fit in. I can only think of "The Hobbit" where they forced that romance between Kili and Tauriel in the movie. The screen time for that (in my eyes) unnecessary romance, could have been used for the other dwarves, who actually played a rather important role but whatever. I could keep ranting about that. Still salty
  12. Parents and Family

    Well I tried talking to my mum about it...but romance (and sex) seem to be the most important things in life to her for some reason, and she just keeps telling me that it's time to find a boyfriend and what not. As if she was scared that I'm gonna die alone or something My grandparents also recently told me they are scared that I'm going to "become" a lesbian (which is such a weird statement ) But I have to say, my mum was genuinely interested when I explained the ace/aro-spectrum and seemed kind of understanding (though she still suppresses the idea of me not being the straight daughter she wished for :D)
  13. Hello :3

    Hello everyone! My name is Lisa and I'm from Lower Austria. I'm not very good at introductions but I'll try my best haha :3 I'm 18 years old and currently in my last year of high school. I found out about asexuality about 2 years ago, by literally typing "why do I find nobody attractive" into google xD, and immediately related to it. I was happy that there were other people who felt the same way and I met some great people at the german AVEN forum Of course after a while the issue of romantic attraction popped up and I have to admit, I'm still not quite sure what my romantic attraction. Just now I'm comfortable labelling myself as wtfromantic since it describes my feelings the best :3 Well that's pretty much it I hope I can get to know some of you awesome people~ Have a nice week~ (Sorry btw if I made any mistakes, english is not my mother tongue ^-^')
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