Ettina

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About Ettina

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  • Gender
    cis female
  • Pronouns
    she/her
  • Location
    I'm autistic
  • Occupation
    university student
  • Romanticism
    cupioromantic
  • Sexuality
    asexual

Contact Methods

  1. Try to get into DBT sooner.
  2. I feel similarly and identify as cis-apathetic or cis-genderless. (Well, mostly - I'm also a bit genderfluid, which makes it more confusing.)
  3. I like the last line.
  4. I tried to watch Little Shop of Horrors at the age of 8. Not a good idea. My family regularly watched Mars Attack when my younger brother was little. (The first time my Dad watched it, my toddler brother started going "at at at" as soon as he saw the disguised Martian.) I was fine with it, and he was OK when he was too little to understand what was going on, but he's told me that apparently we let him watch it when he was just getting old enough to be terrified by it.
  5. I don't think most people actually hear it in the other person's voice (although my Dad does - he'll take on a person's accent when he's quoting them). For me, it's more that I tell myself things that person would have told me, often without consciously thinking of who said that to me. For example, I'll make a mistake and immediately call myself stupid.
  6. I've gotten hateful comments on my blog from someone who hates the word allosexual. They seem to think it's inherently offensive to have a word that groups LGB people with heterosexuals on the dimension of sexual attraction.
  7. I know someone who is out as just 'nonbinary'. I don't know if they identify just as nonbinary, or if they identify with a more specific term and just don't want to get into the details. But if you're not sure, just come out as nonbinary.
  8. Regarding your gender, keep in mind that gender expression is different from gender identity. You can have a masculine style of expression and still identify as completely female.
  9. I went to French immersion from pre-K to grade 6. I'm rusty now, but I have decent French. I have tried to learn far too many languages to list, but the biggies are Dutch, Japanese and ASL.
  10. Is she a Beagle?
  11. I've had a lot. Not sure the exact count.
  12. For me, being autistic and aro, I'm terrified of how I'm going to survive when my parents die. At least I have a brother to support me, but he's got his own struggles, so who knows? If I wasn't aro, I'd be looking for a partner who can help me out, but being aro makes that a lot more complicated.
  13. Espeon. I like cats and I'd like to be psychic.
  14. Question #14 can't be answered because it has no option for not shaving anywhere. Question #65 asks about your favorite 'monkey' and then lists gorilla, orangutan (which they spelt oragutang?), chimpanzee and lemur, none of which are monkeys! Question #91 - wtf is anallophilic? They only define it much later. Apparently it's another word for ace? Question #92 has no option for me - I never feel attracted to people, and if I suddenly did, I'd be too freaked out to do any of those options. (Instead, I'd probably just act uncomfortable, and then at the next soonest opportunity talk to my mom and analyze what was going on.) Question #117 I have absolutely no clue what animal someone else would associate with me. Final results: Your Raw Score is: 315, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Feminine Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a androgynous manner. You believe you have mild conflicts about your gender identity. You indicated your were born Female. ANALYSIS: Female to Male Crossdresser NOTES: You are in a statistical minority as a anallophilic crossdresser. Most crossdressers are heterosexual. Your motivation for crossdressing may be driven by the undirected nature of your sexuality, as a way to more fully explore the Male gender role. A lot more accurate than I expected given the ridiculous and flawed questions. And by the way, my motivation for 'crossdressing' is a) comfort, b) not wanting to be sexually attractive, c) wanting stuff that actually fits, and d) wanting better quality clothing.
  15. Mostly cis woman, aroace, ring finger longer than index finger on both hands.