I know this is a touchy subject, but it needs to be covered.
When people are doing the Discourse™ and it's a cis aroace person, it almost ALWAYS gets ugly. I was defending the right to be in the Lgbtq+ community as long as you're not rude/transphobic etc, and I got called, by not one, but 2 cis aro aces a "nigger" a "monkey" a "queer" in an offensive way, and a fucking SLAVE. At this point in time i identify as Aro, and after telling them this they told me "I hope you get AIDS you allosexual tranny" Now I'm all for reclaiming slurs, but here's the thing: YOU CANT RECLAIM A SLUR IF YOUVE NEVER IDENTIFIED OR BEEN CALLED SAID SLUR. If cis aroace people are behaving like this, calling trans people slurs and other minorities racist thing, i do not see why they should be excluded. I'm not saying ALL cis aces should be excluded just the homophobic/transphobic and racist ones. Feel free to discuss lol