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hippiecat

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About hippiecat

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  • Birthday 04/23/1998

Personal Information

  • Name
    Jenni Andrea
  • Gender
    female
  • Pronouns
    she, her
  • Location
    Finland
  • Occupation
    Student
  • Romanticism
    Aro
  • Sexuality
    Ace

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  1. Immaturity

    I often feel like I'm more mature than others in some ways but my personality and how I present myself is pretty child-like. I'm also very small so that sometimes makes me feel immature. But no, I don't think any of this is related to me being aro-ace. Obviously some people think that never having been in a relationship makes me somehow less mature but I don't really care about what others think
  2. Hogwarts Houses!

    I've recently realised that I actually am Hufflepuff and my Ilvermony house is Thunderbird. The combo is pretty spot-on
  3. I feel lonely

    I'm currently feeling a lot like this. Sometimes I feel so disconnected from friends and family, and really want an aro soulmate type of person in my life. It seems unfair that you need to feel and show romantic/sexual attraction to connect with someone deeply (not that that's true, but sometimes it feels like it). I dunno, confusing things.
  4. Romance and being human(e)

    Yaaaas, love this
  5. Ace representation on Bojack Horseman

    I teared up a bit when I watched the fourth season. It felt sooo good to be represented in a great show
  6. Genders and platonic attraction?

    I'm exactly the same. I dunno what it is about guys, but I've never been good friends with any guy. There are some that I hang out with in groups and stuff, but not really alone. I also get along better with my sisters than my brother. So yeah same except I'm aromantic :D.
  7. Confused and Questioning

    Don't let your orientation label get in the way if you want to do something :). You can be open about wanting a girlfriend, and maybe that will help you figure yourself out even more? Who knows.
  8. Aromantic irony

    This, although it depends on the topic. Like, if you want advice on how to get someone to like you, I'm the last person you should ask. But spotting toxic signs in a relationship? Bring it on.
  9. can anyone relate?

    yeees, this so much. i tend to have many guy friends and i think one of the reasons is that i'm scared they'll like me romantically and things will get awkward. at least with girls the chances are smaller. i would also hate telling them that i don't like them that way, cause that always sucks.
  10. Fears

    I guess I fear a little bit about all my friends leaving me for romantic partners... But then again, it seems like that won't be an issue for many years since I'm so young. And I'm pretty hopeful that I'll find good friends who'll stick around ^^. Maybe even some of my current friends will stay with me, who knows
  11. Compare and contrast

    All of this is so relatable ohmygoshh
  12. The Aro <-> Romantic Q&A Thread

    I couldn't get through the test, some of the statements were really annoying. Halfway through I had 0 points.
  13. Aros and alcohol (poll)

    I don't drink too often since I get really horrible hangovers, but sometimes yeah. And the older I am the more boring drinking seems to get
  14. To "come out"

    Good luck to everyone who are thinking about coming out! I don't think I'll be coming out to anyone unless they ask me about it. Like if my dad wanted to know if I was a lesbian or something, I would say that I'm asexual and not interested in relationships. Not sure he'd take me seriously but whatever, I think the older I get the more "believable" my aro-aceness becomes, lol.
  15. I'm 19 and nope, never been in a relationship and probably never will, although I'm always open for it if by some magical reason my orientation changes (not likely) and I meet the perfect person.
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