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About hippiecat

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  • Birthday 04/23/1998

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    Jenni Andrea
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  1. #AromanticProblems

    So true. I'm glad that I look very child-like and I actually try to higlight that with my style. I could never wear anything too sexy or feminine because I hate the attention I get.
  2. 2018 New Years Resolutions

    I don't make proper New Year's resolutions, but some of my goals definitely are: - getting into uni - exercising more - basically continuing with all my healthy habits that I've managed to create although coming out to more people could be a good resolution as well. i'l have to think about that
  3. Aros at family-orientated events and holidays

    Just had to answer stupid questions about not bringing a boyfriend with me... during Christmas dinner . But I don't bother explaining aromanticism because I doubt anyone would take me seriously. And this happens so rarely that it's not that big of a deal. I think that as I get older everyone will realise that dating and relationships just aren't something I pursue. And if anyone genuinely wants to know about my orientation I'll tell them, but until then... Let them speculate
  4. Fantasising and Thoughts

    I don't think fantasizing about squishes has anything to do with your romantic/sexual orientation. It might be more of a personality thing, because I know people who are alloromantic/allosexual who say they almost never fantasize. But I dunno, I guess the only one who can tell if it means something is the person fantasizing/daydreaming :D.
  5. Hi !

    @NullVector It's Snufkin , but yes, Finnish pride !
  6. Hi !

    Hello and welcome, fellow Finn I think the best way of telling friends is to just say "Hey, I really need to tell you something because it's getting weird that you don't know. I'm aromantic and asexual, yoooo." So if you want to, just go for it ^^
  7. Immaturity

    I often feel like I'm more mature than others in some ways but my personality and how I present myself is pretty child-like. I'm also very small so that sometimes makes me feel immature. But no, I don't think any of this is related to me being aro-ace. Obviously some people think that never having been in a relationship makes me somehow less mature but I don't really care about what others think
  8. Hogwarts Houses!

    I've recently realised that I actually am Hufflepuff and my Ilvermony house is Thunderbird. The combo is pretty spot-on
  9. I feel lonely

    I'm currently feeling a lot like this. Sometimes I feel so disconnected from friends and family, and really want an aro soulmate type of person in my life. It seems unfair that you need to feel and show romantic/sexual attraction to connect with someone deeply (not that that's true, but sometimes it feels like it). I dunno, confusing things.
  10. Romance and being human(e)

    Yaaaas, love this
  11. Ace representation on Bojack Horseman

    I teared up a bit when I watched the fourth season. It felt sooo good to be represented in a great show
  12. Genders and platonic attraction?

    I'm exactly the same. I dunno what it is about guys, but I've never been good friends with any guy. There are some that I hang out with in groups and stuff, but not really alone. I also get along better with my sisters than my brother. So yeah same except I'm aromantic :D.
  13. Confused and Questioning

    Don't let your orientation label get in the way if you want to do something :). You can be open about wanting a girlfriend, and maybe that will help you figure yourself out even more? Who knows.
  14. Aromantic irony

    This, although it depends on the topic. Like, if you want advice on how to get someone to like you, I'm the last person you should ask. But spotting toxic signs in a relationship? Bring it on.
  15. can anyone relate?

    yeees, this so much. i tend to have many guy friends and i think one of the reasons is that i'm scared they'll like me romantically and things will get awkward. at least with girls the chances are smaller. i would also hate telling them that i don't like them that way, cause that always sucks.