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Flightless_Cryptid

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About Flightless_Cryptid

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  • Name
    Finn
  • Gender
    currently figuring it out
  • Pronouns
    They/them
  • Romanticism
    Aro???
  • Sexuality
    Ace

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  1. The one thing keeping me from fully identifying as aro is my feelings for this one person. I'm not sure if I have a crush, squish, or whatever on them and it's really annoying. I feel like if the feelings I have for them are a crush then I'm not aro as I would've definitely had crushes in the past but if not then I'm almost definitely aro. I guess I just want to be really close to this person but figuring out if I want to be in a romantic relationship is hard. I've looked at so many websites describing squishes and crushes and I really can't tell the difference. I don't think I want to be in a romantic relationship it just doesn't seem appealing to me. I've thought of the possibility of wanting to be in a QPR with them and that seems nice??? How do y'all describe a squish? I guess is what I'm trying to say.
  2. I've known for a long time that I don't want/can't see myself getting married in the future. I've said this aloud many times so its no secret but it's really annoying when the topic of marriage is brought up, I mention I don't want to get married and then my sister chimes in saying, "So you want to be alone for the rest of your life with like 20 cats?" Like.... Really? Just because I don't want to get married or be with someone romantically doesn't mean I want to be lonely. I just want to live with a friend or something who's in a similar situation.

    1. NotHeartless

      NotHeartless

      Oh, yes! I don't understand why people seem to bring up the "cat argument" often. There are various alternatives to not being on your own if you don't want to and marriage is out of question, not just ONE. Some don't seem to see or get that even though it would be better to look over the rim of one's own tea cup. Well, let them talk. I'm in the same boat as you and cannot see myself getting married (or wanting to do that at all).
      Welcome to our community, btw :hugs: :aropride:
      Ps: love your username, very creative

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