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  • Birthday May 22

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    Afab Agender
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    Romance-neutral Aromantic
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    Sex-Indifferent Asexual

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  1. Personally, I don't think you have to tolerate kissing if you don't like it. Even I'm not really enthusiastic about kissing. Also, nonmerci pretty much said what I thought as well. It all comes down to intention in my opinion.
  2. No one has time for that. I wouldn't have any problem rejecting someone but I also don't understand the whole confession process either (tfw some romantic anime/movie cliche can be real is still bizarre to me). Why anyone would wait for a confession is beyond me 🤔
  3. 10 Acts of Service 9 Quality Time 5 Words of Affirmation 4 Physical Touch 2 Receiving Gifts Result + Definition: Acts of Service Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve you out of love (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved. Quality Time In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time. Words of Affirmation Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up. Physical Touch A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you. Receiving Gifts Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else's love and affection for you.
  4. I agree. It can be hard to determine that with just a "yes" or "no". There are at least half of the things on the list that I have never experienced myself either with possibly the same going for the other person. The list is good for keeping me on my toes and becoming more aware that this could happen or have already been done by those who are comfortable with these activities.
  5. I ate really good tonkatsu ramen that gives three toppings of choice. Because my sister and her bf were there, we got to share more than that amount (beansprouts, bamboo, red ginger, and egg). The takoyaki appetizer also tasted great with the noodles.
  6. I'm ok with nudity around family I'm comfortable with (as in we both know each other for so long that we mutually don't mind each other being naked) and it depends on the place. Saunas/spas and gym locker rooms seem like it would be common for people to be undressed for shower/cleaning purposes. In the end, I can do it (in fact, I remember having to be the first person to undress/change in the locker despite it not really counting as full nudity when we were told that was what we have to do in my middle school days before heading out for P.E.) but that doesn't mean I'll want to around just anyone. I can see myself enjoying the intimacy of being naked with someone I trust without actually having sex although it doesn't sound that practical in the first place unless it's a really hot day maybe...Or a shower?
  7. I'll be 26 this year and 27 the next year.
  8. Omg, yes the mummy's scarab part haunted me in my childhood 😭 Other than the specific part in The Mummy, I was mostly scared or rather creeped out by the episode in Goosebumps with the mask. I can't think of a movie off the top of my head yet.
  9. Arostar

    Tea thread

    Oolong tea and raspberry tea are good in my opinion
  10. Early signs that I was aro In fourth grade, my tutor once asked me what type of guy I would be interested in. I basically gave her a description of a future room mate who can either clean, cook, or be responsible as possible. When she gave a second question of what I would do if he was tired from chores, I replied that I would help him. The tutor laughed. The first time I was asked if I had a crush in my elementary days, I assumed it was about who I liked interacting with or thought was funny rather than who I want to date or marry. As I grew older and have that question repeated, I said, "no" and gain various reactions from shock to being called, "cold" or "prudish" for not seeking a romantic relationship. During my high school to mid-college years, I've had teachers, classmates, etc. who tried to ship or convince me to date my best friend since middle school and I've hated it. Every time I'm told someone has a crush on me or been confessed to, I wish they haven't. Whenever I play a game that's supposed to be about romance, I view it in a third person/detached perspective and will easily lose interest if the gameplay is not fun no matter how attractive the character is. (May or May not have been an indication) In fiction or not, I'm not jealous of what the partner does but I will feel neglected/hurt if our friendship is treated with less value. I don't understand weddings and find it boring despite the impressive details. Last but not least, I thought people were joking about being possessive over fictional characters or others before.
  11. I tend to dislike kisses although I try my best to tolerate it if it's not done with romantic intentions. Quick and needed hugs are fine but I'm usually not the hugger and rarely ask for one. I'm not sure what cuddling is supposed to be like so I have no clue whether I'll enjoy it or not.
  12. I'm always open to more music that doesn't involve romance nor break ups. It would also be great to see movies, tv shows, games, and books that can remind me that romantic love is not all there is to life.
  13. I headcanon Saiki Kusuo (from Saiki Kusuo no Sai Nan/The Disastrous Life of Saiki K.) as aro and ace because he doesn't seem to have any strong opinions nor strong desire to have any sort of relationship with other characters despite helping them from time to time. He enjoys having his own space while eating sweets.
  14. Currently this basically an ost from Persona 5 since I was watching some Youtuber play this game.
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