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CloudlegtheVolcano

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  1. CloudlegtheVolcano

    You might be aro if...

    This so much YMBAI you love Arocalypse because you know you can always find someone who knows how you feel.
  2. CloudlegtheVolcano

    Sad as an Aro Sometimes?

    I’m fine with being aro. I’ll be perfectly content when I’m older to live on my own with two dogs. Picturing myself in a relationship is weird to me, even a QPR. But at the same time, sometimes I feel sad about being aro. When I see or hear about someone doing something really sweet for their SO, or even hear someone say their spouse makes them laugh, I can’t help but feel a pang. I think about how I’ll never have that. I don’t believe that everyone needs a significant other to be happy, but still this thought crosses my mind sometimes. Can anyone else relate?
  3. CloudlegtheVolcano

    Who Am I?

    So I’m in my early teens and really not sure about my identity. I’m pretty sure I’m ace and still questioning whether or not I may be aro. I was first introduced to the concept of asexuality when a friend came out to me. It sort of rang a bell for me, and I started to do a little research, which led me to AVEN. After reading about asexuality and Googling it I eventually came across the term “aromantic.” I looked into that and realized this could be me too. Everyone I know has had a crush, but I haven’t. I never realized this was weird until pretty recently, and I still don’t get why it’s such a big deal. My friends would always ask me who I liked and say I was lying when my answer was “no one.” But could I just be a “late bloomer?” I once saw someone on one of these forums write something along the lines of “The lack of a feeling doesn’t smack you in the face as much as the presence of one does.” I think this is true, and it just makes things complicated because there’s really no way to tell besides waiting indefinitely. I know there are countless posts like this one, on AVEN and here and everywhere else on the Internet, but thoughts and experience would be greatly appreciated! Thanks for reading :)
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