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NotHeartless

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About NotHeartless

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  • Birthday 02/23/1995

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  • Name
    Tan
  • Gender
    (trans-)male
  • Pronouns
    he/him/his
  • Location
    Germany
  • Occupation
    student
  • Romanticism
    aro
  • Sexuality
    something multisexual

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  1. Today, I realized (once again) I do love but not in the "typical romantic way" (or what society considers it as such).
    I do not shy away anymore from saying "I love you" because it's far from a "I love you and I need you, otherwise I'm sad"- way. It's more a "I love you, I care about you and I want you to be happy. Do what makes you happy". It feels like I can love people freely. It feels so open, endless. It's hard to explain. But I'm thankful I am able to experience it because, looking at the world, apparently not many people are able to love this way. I don't know, it feels like a gift.
    So while I'm on it: I love you guys. I love the aro community and our diversity. You rock!
    It's kind of ironic an aro person is writing all of this but these are my honest feelings. Maybe I'm actually extremly polyamorous without wanting to bind myself on one person but whatever this is, it feels right. I want to be able to tell my friends, and everyone else I care about, that I love them. Without anyone misunderstanding, that is all.

    1. NullVector

      NullVector

      Metta ('East') orĀ Agape ('West') seems to fit what you are talking about here.

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